Welcome — I’m so glad you’re here

If Christmas has ever left you feeling overwhelmed, underprepared, or quietly disappointed, you’re not alone.

notthischristmas exists for people who want to enjoy the Christmas season — not just survive it.


Why Not This Christmas exists

So many of us go into Christmas with big expectations:

  • meaningful traditions
  • calm, cozy moments
  • memories that actually feel special

And then real life shows up.

Stress, clutter, time pressure, unrealistic expectations, and comparison can turn what should be a joyful season into a frustrating one.

This site was created to help change that.


What you’ll find here

At Not This Christmas, I share:

  • Practical tips to organize Christmas without the chaos
  • Simple ideas that actually fit into real life
  • Planning strategies to reduce stress and last-minute scrambling
  • Encouragement to enjoy Christmas as it is, not as it’s “supposed” to be

This isn’t about perfection. It’s about intention, preparation, and making choices that lead to a more enjoyable season.


My approach to Christmas

I believe:

  • A good Christmas starts before December
  • Less pressure often leads to more joy
  • You don’t need more stuff — you need better systems
  • The best traditions are the ones that work for your life

This site is for anyone who’s thought, “I don’t want this year to feel like last year.”


What I hope for you

My goal is to help you walk into the Christmas season feeling:

  • more prepared
  • more confident
  • less stressed
  • and far less disappointed

If something here helps you enjoy Christmas even a little more, then Not This Christmas is doing its job.


Stay connected

If you enjoy thoughtful, realistic guidance for the Christmas season, I invite you to:

  • Explore the blog for tips, tricks, and ideas
  • Reach out anytime via the Contact page
  • Join the email list for seasonal reminders and encouragement

Christmas doesn’t have to be perfect to be meaningful — and you don’t have to figure it out alone.

Welcome to Not This Christmas.